We may always state what it is that we want from another human being but their giving or withholding of our request should not influence our well being - otherwise our happiness is dependent on another person. If we are affected by their negligence to honor our request we have engaged in present age technologies, knowing good from evil, right from wrong, pleasure from pain, receiving from withholding.
The knowing of these things and the judgment between them is the mechanism that maintains and sustains this present age, for what we focus upon and give our emotional currency toward, we create. Therefore, if we focus upon the gift being withheld and feel the emotions of lack, we create more situations that create the same feelings as lack - in fact, we create MORE LACK.
Fifth dimensional technology (or kingdom mentalities) is this: Finding joy, peace and contentment regardless of our interaction with others - this is the next step in our evolutionary process as enlightened beings.
It is also the first step in crucifying the egocentric self which is the mystical understanding and underlying message of the cross.
The cross is not for one man but for all.